I've been thinking of doing a series of discussion posts for a while now, and I've finally come to the decision that I will post my thoughts on a different topic every Sunday. The series will be called That's What Chey Said, and hopefully these posts will be able to help some of you out in one way or another.
My first discussion post will be about how to deal with rejection in the blogosphere.
At some point as book bloggers, each one of us is going to send out requests for ARCs or eGalleys. Unfortunately, most of us will go through a lot of rejection before that glorious acceptance email. We do our research, put hours of hard work into our blogs and sometimes we barely get noticed.
Instead of getting down about each rejection, stay positive! Just look at things this way:
Publishers receive hundreds of requests per title, and most times they don’t always have that many to go around. I promise you, they’re not denying your request out of hatred for you or your blog.
If you’ve been accepted any books for review, feel grateful! Someone is investing in you and your thoughts and that’s something to happy-dance about!
There are worse things than not being able to view a certain title before its release. I hardly ever get my most-anticipated books for review, but when you do eventually get that highly-coveted book, it makes you appreciate it a little more!
What I’m trying to say is sure, it really sucks getting denied, and no, I’m not calling anyone who whines about it ungrateful. I know the feeling pretty well. I used to take it personally, but now I realize that there’s so much more to it than the amount of followers you have or how much a publicist may or may not like you as a person. Also try to keep in mind that just because you're denied for a certain title doesn't mean that your work isn't good enough. Always try to look on the bright side and seeing as there’s no harm in requesting, don’t give up!
How do you deal with rejection as a blogger?